Adopting a Cat: Emotional Choices

Just when we think our friends over at The Way of Cats blog have covered every possible topic relating to cats, they post yet another great article that makes us think, educates us, and amuses us! Their latest is titled “Cats Who Are Attracted To Us” but as is their style, they start off on what seems like a totally different topic at first, which is the huge range of emotions an adopter can feel when walking into a shelter and seeing the cats for adoption. Then they delve into how that emotional response evolves into a connection, and some of the emotions that could motivate you to pick a cat that might not be the best match for you home. Then… well, we’ve given enough away for now! You can read on to find out the rest below…

Pamela writes: “My friends like to tease me that I will choose the “most pathetic kitten in the shelter.” It’s not that I choose them because they were pathetic; I chose them despite their pathetic-ness. I chose Reverend Jim and Olwyn because they were the right type of cat for our situation. But also because they both reached out to me and declared they liked me on very short notice.

This is like going out with someone who we know likes us. We have a head start on the relationship.

It’s not that people don’t use emotion when they choose a cat. It’s that they often use the wrong ones.

Nostalgia. There’s nothing wrong with choosing a cat who looks a lot like a favorite, past, cat. As long as we realize we are getting a new cat; not a replay of our old one. We can grow fond of a Maine Coon Cat’s cuddling style or the talkativeness of a Siamese. Discovering which breeds we love can help guide us to suitable choices. But we must never expect a “replacement” cat. This will disappoint both of us.

Amusement. I see it over and over; people are captivated by the little clown who has endless antics. They bring them home to the mild-mannered older cat who has never lived with another cat. This is the operating springboard of most situation comedies. But we don’t want to actually live with this much conflict. By all means bring home the lively little one, only make sure they have a playmate. If our existing cat or cats will not fill the needed position; there’s a whole roomful of applicants right there.

Aesthetics. Oh, the pretty ones. There’s nothing wrong with choosing a beautiful cat; unless that is the only reason they attracted us. This can often take the form of seeing a “purebred” and finding the prospect so appealing we overlook warning flags about this cat’s suitability for us… or even, at all. Many people will go for the cheap purebred, discover the serious issues that come from ignorant breeding of a restricted gene pool; and abandon the cat. It’s not that such cats cannot be good pets; my Chantilly/Tiffany rescue, Smokepuff, was both gorgeous and sweet. But he also had problems my vet agreed could have a genetic origin.

Pity. I only get the “most pathetic” if that cat has problems I know how to fix. A kind heart that overrules a cool head is the quickest way to take on far more than we can handle; and then find our whole household disrupted. It is delightful to bring a shy cat from their shell, rehabilitate a little bag of bones, or turn an aggressive cat into a love bug. But we must be prepared that our efforts might only make these cats more comfortable being the way they already are. This will make for a happier cat, but might not bring much change to their outward behaviors.

These are all strong emotions, but better expressed when applied to a cat who is suitable in many ways; not just this one.

People who don’t feel much confidence in their ability to figure out cats will feel reluctant to choose. That’s why choosing a cat, who chooses us, means so much. It means we’ve already demonstrated the ability to emotionally communicate.

In my experience, humans make a fundamental mistake when they do not use emotion to make an emotional decision. We are looking for a cat to feel close to. That is not a given.

Except when we choose for it.”

For more about choosing cats from an emotional linkage, see The Way of Cats post on Feeling the Connection.

Dog Training: How To Train A Dog Not To Bark

Is your new dog constantly barking? Discover the potential reasons behind the barking and find effective methods to stop it.

One of our lovely Adopt-a-Pet.com fans asked us to blog about how to stop our dogs from barking when we’re not home.  Well, your wish is our command! First, it’s important to understand why dogs bark.  They bark to communicate, just like we speak.  Some common types of barking include alert barking to let you know of something, defensive barking to avoid or stop something the dog doesn’t like, attention barking for your attention, frustration barking when confused or stressed, and boredom barking which occurs as an outlet for the dog to amuse himself. (Check out Karen Pryor’s books for more detailed explanation of why dogs bark.)

Not all barking is a problem. Often it’s a natural way for your dog to tell you he wants to go outside or is hungry. But when dealing with your dog barking excessively, take into account that it’s often a symptom of another problem such as anxiety or boredom. The barking is a symptom and will not go away until the source is addressed so consider what is going on for your dog that is causing him to bark before devising a plan of action.

For example, if your dog is barking for attention, one of the most effective ways to handle this is to remove what he wants – your attention – when he is barking. When he stops barking, give your dog all the attention and love you can! He will soon learn that being quiet gets him what he wants and will pair barking with your ignoring him. If your dog alert barks when someone comes to the door thank him for his help and let him know you’ve got it under control. Then throw a ball or a toy he likes to get his focus off of alerting you and on to a game. You can also teach your dog to be quiet on command with the help of a trainer or dog training class. By teaching your dog to bark on cue, you can also teach him to be silent.

If your dog barks when you are gone, accept that the environment and set-up you have  is reinforcing his barking. And barking is, unfortunately, a self-reinforcing behavior which becomes a learned habit. So if you want to stop your dog from barking when you’re not home, change the set-up that is inadvertently reinforcing the barking. For instance, if your dog barks when he’s alone in the backyard, try keeping him inside in a crate instead when you’re gone. (Please note: a dog should not be kept in a crate for more than 6 hours at a time – see our How to Crate Train article.) If you think certain street sounds trigger him while you’re gone, try leaving classical music playing to calm him, or check out special soothing dog CDs for such purposes (like www.throughadogsear.com). If your dog barks at people or other dogs passing by a window, draw the blinds or keep the dog out of the front room except when you’re there to address the problem.

Keep in mind that your dog might be barking when you leave home because he is simply bored. Is your dog getting enough exercise and stimulation? If he is good with other dogs, consider adopting a second dog so they can keep each other company and play while you’re gone, or try fostering a pet with a local rescue group to see if that helps relieve the boredom and barking. Experiment with giving your dog a chew toy like a bully stick or Kong (best when filled with peanut butter or treats) to keep him occupied while he’s home alone. Give him a chew treats as a project to work on right as you’re walking out the door as this will help keep him busy and also positively associate your absence. Try only giving him these high value chew treats when he’s home alone. (Please note: if you have more than one dog, do not leave them unsupervised with high value chew treats as they may lead to fighting.) See my past article on When to Give Your Dog a Chew Toy for more on this topic!

In sum, watch and listen to your dog. What is causing him to bark when you’re home? Those are good indicators of what is causing him to bark when you’re not home. Then figure out how can you alleviate these triggers for him and set him up to succeed barklessly!

Katya Friedman is Adopt-a-Pet.com’s Director of Partnerships and Promotions and a certified dog trainer.

Stray Pets: What to do if You Find a Stray Pet

Found a stray animal and not sure what to do? Here are ten tips to guide you.

What to Do If You Find a Stray CatLosing a pet can be a traumatic experience for a pet owner. If you find a stray animal and you think it could be someone’s pet, it’s important to do all that you can to reunite the animal with its owner. Here is a list of things you should do if you find a stray animal.

  • Approach with Caution – A frightened, injured, or feral animal may act aggressively or bolt away. If the animal looks threatening or makes you feel uneasy in any way you should stay away and notify your local animal control center. If you do decide to approach the animal, speak calmly and warmly and make sure you are clearly in views.
  • Assume there is an Owner – Although the pet may seem afraid, this may be his natural behavior, even at home. His appearance may also be deceptive – if he has fleas, seems malnourished, or has an injury, it may simply be because he has been lost for some time. It’s best to assume the animal has an owner until all measures to find that owner have failed.
  • Take the Animal to the Shelter – The animal shelter is often the first place pet owners will look for their lost pets, but the last place where people will take a found animal because they fear the animal will be euthanized. Many shelters will let you shelter the animal if you fill out a found report with a description of the animal, the location you found it, and your contact information.
  • Check for ID – Many pets will have ID tags on their collars or a tattoo on the inside of an ear or leg. You may also want to have the animal shelter or a veterinarian search for a microchip embedded under the animal’s skin with identification.
  • Go for a Walk – Something that often works well for adult dogs is to put a long leash and secure collar on the dog, then tell him to “Go Home!” Many dogs will be familiar with their own areas and will lead you right to its home. However, don’t release the dog to anyone unless you are sure that you have found the rightful owner(s).
  • Look for LOST Signs – Look in a one-mile radius around the area where you found the animal for LOST PET signs. Keep in mind that signs may not appear right away if the owner was on vacation or has a disability, or if the animal was lost relatively recently. Don’t assume there is no owner if you don’t see signs – keep checking for signs whenever you can.
  • Make FOUND Signs – Make large, brightly colored FOUND signs with a few descriptive words such as “SMALL BROWN TERRIER” that can be read from far away, along with your contact information or the number of the animal shelter. You may also want to take a picture of the animal for the poster. Then you should put a poster near the spot where you found the animal, as well as a few others nearby where they can be seen by many people. You may also want to consider putting signs at animal shelters, pet supply stores, and animal rescue centers.
  • Check Other Sources – Periodically check the “Lost & Found” section in your local paper for an ad about the lost animal–you may also want to place a “Found” ad in this section. You may also want to look on the internet for local lost pet websites, as well as online classifieds like Craigslist.
  • Make Sure You’ve Found the Right Owner – If you receive a call from someone claiming to be the owner, have them give you a full, detailed description of the animal. Don’t ask leading questions such as, “Does the dog have a brown spot on its back?” but you could ask something like, “What does the dog’s fur look like?” Leave it to the caller to give you a full description. If you agree to deliver the animal, bring someone else with you and let someone know where you are going.
  • If You Cannot Find an Owner – Check with your local animal control for what the legal requirements are for when you’ve found a stray pet. Some cities laws require you surrender the pet to them for a certain number of days to give an owner a chance to reclaim their pet, before they can adopt it to you or anyone else.

If you cannot find an owner, and have checked with your local animal control about the laws, you can decide if you want to adopt the pet yourself, or want to help that pet find a new home. Please read Adopt-a-Pet.com’s Lost Pet Guide for helpful tips!

Ashley Porter is a pet lover who writes about various topics including pet health issues and is the owner of the site Guide to Becoming a Veterinarian Technician.

Jenny-fur, featured pet on MyPetHealthGuide.com

Meet Jenny-fur! She’s a pretty princess of a pup who likes to wear a pink sweater. The now 10-month-old pooch arrived at Bedford, Texas-based Homeward Bound Animal Rescue as a three-month-old puppy after she was surrendered to a local shelter shortly after being purchased at a pet store. The purebred Catahoula Leopard Dog is a medium-sized pup who is spayed and up-to-date on all shots. Jenny-fur has been a good girl while in foster care—she has befriended doggie playmates, loves the water, and has a ton of energy! Thanks to our pet-loving friends at MyPetHealthGuide.com for featuring Jenny-fur and helping homeless pets!

Dogs that sniff out cancer

Last month Time Magazine reported that dogs are being trained and can successfully sniff out lung cancer more reliably than traditional tests currently used by most doctors! A dog’s sense of smell is infinitely better than a humans, some sources say 100 times better, while others report up to 1,000 times better, so it’s no surprise they can smell the cancerous cells, but quite amazing that they can be trained to detect them so accurately. Time Magazine reports: “German researchers report in the European Respiratory Journal that dogs can be trained to detect lung cancer by sniffing human breath. The scientists worked with an admittedly small number of canines — just four, including two German shepherds, a Lab and an Australian shepherd — but the dogs had good success. They were able to suss out cancer in 71 out of 100 breath samples from lung cancer patients, and were able to correctly identify 93% of cancer-free samples, giving them an impressively low rate of false positives. That’s better than the imaging tests that most physicians currently use to detect lung cancer.”

Back in 2006, dogs in labs were shown to be able to successfully sniff out both lung and breast cancer, as you can read about in People Magazine too. You can read the full recent Time Magazine article here: http://healthland.time.com/2011/08/18/a-new-way-to-detect-lung-cancer-dogs-can-sniff-it-out/#ixzz1YQco8S00

 

 

 

 

 

Wet Nose Guide featured pet: Chyna!

This week’s featured Adopt-a-Pet.com pet from the  Wet Nose Guide is the lovely big girl Chyna in Denver, Colorado. Don’t judge this dog by her size, because she is sweet, quiet, friendly and very mellow. As a St. Bernard/Labrador Retriever mix she has a large and lovable presence. Chyna came to a shelter in the Colorado area when her previous owners learned they were expecting and weren’t able to find room to fit their expanding family. Chyna gets along with children and other dogs, just as long as they don’t try to impose on her bed. She knows her manners, is housebroken, spayed, and up to date with shots – she’s just completely ready to join her new home. She would fit within a home that is looking to complete their family with a furry friend. For more info on Chyna, visit her page on Adopt-A-Pet.com.

For Colorado Dog owners, Wet Nose Guide is now in your area!

Keep your pets safe from Coyotes

As our human population continues to grow, we are spreading into areas where wildlife once ruled. Coyotes are being seen more and more in urban areas, where they used to reside only in the countryside. Housing developments and natural habitat destruction like wildfires & flooding are forcing them into finding new territory. Coyotes have even been found in the middle of Manhattan! (See photos taken in Central Park.) Just because you haven’t seen them, don’t assume they are not there – coyotes now live in every part of North America. A single coyote’s range from their den can be a radius of 12 miles, and while they tend to be nocturnal, they do hunt at all times of the day. Coyotes are very adaptable and opportunistic, taking advantage of many human behaviors that unintentionally provide them with easy food and water. So what can you do to keep you pets safe from Coyotes? Read on!

Coyotes are like any other wildlife. We need to learn to co-exist with them as peacefully as possible. They have just as much a right to be living on this planet as humans and our pets. We wish them no harm. That said, we certainly want to keep our pets (and humans) safe from being eaten or hurt by a coyote! So here is our favorite advice assembled from city, state and university websites whose links we’ve included below, as well as our first-hand experience. We’ve tried many of these tips for living safely with coyotes we’ve seen in our own urban neighborhood. It is very rare for a coyote to attack a human or a dog on a leash being held by a human. (Rare = From 1988 to 1997 in southern California, 53 coyote attacks on humans– resulting in 21 injuries– were documented by a University of California Wildlife Extension Specialist.) If you or your pets are attacked by a coyote, contact your local wildlife agency to ask if you should file a report.

What should I do if see a coyote?

  • GET BIG! You want to appear larger than the coyote to scare it off. Raise your arms, wave them around, and shout as loud as you can to scare off the coyote. (We like yelling “GET OUTTA HERE!!!!) If you are wearing a jacket, open it up and  flap it around like a cape.
  • Keep your dogs as close to you as possible, but do not bend over. (Some experts say quickly pick up small dogs, but see #3 below.)
  • Carry a large colorful umbrella and a bunch of golf balls or rocks in your pocket. You can open and close the umbrella a few times, put it over your shoulder so you look BIG, and if they don’t head the other way, throw the golf balls/rocks at the coyote.
  • Carry an air horn and blow it to scare coyotes away.

If the above scare tactics don’t work, walk slowly backwards (do not turn your back to the coyote) to a safe place, like a friend’s house, a business, your car, or across a busy street.

What should I NOT do?

  1. Do NOT turn your back on them and run – that is acting like prey.
  2. Do NOT throw food at them
  3. If they are within 50 feet of you, do NOT bend down to pick up small animals. This will make you look like you are cowering and small. Get your pet as close to you as possible and get big!

How can I keep my dog safe out on walks?

  • Walk your dog on a 6-foot or shorter leash at all times.
  • Walk in high-pedestrian traffic areas.
  • Try not to establish a regular routine (leave at different times each day) and walk different routes each day to avoid setting up a pattern for the coyote to detect. They will stalk you if they learn your routine!
  • Avoid bushy areas or paths near abandoned properties.

Is it OK for my dog to “play” with coyotes?
Never encourage or allow your dog to interact or “play” with coyotes. We have friends who have seen a pack use a young coyote as “bait” to lure a dog to “play” with them, and then to follow them into their pack attack area and be killed! Our friend watched this happen from their 2nd story window next door, at first thinking it was “cute” the dog and coyote were playing. You can watch a video of a pack working like this at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCyUuIMFAro — nothing violent shown (it ends before they attack) however read the video description.

Don’t FEED them!

When coyotes are fed by humans, they loose their natural fear of humans. This is VERY DANGEROUS! You may be OK, but the next small child or person with their pet may not be so lucky.

How can I keep my pets safe from coyotes at home?

Keep them indoors when not with you on leash. Pets kept indoors (no pet doors) are safe. Pets allowed to roam free (such as cats) even in a fenced yard are not. But dogs go outside to use the bathroom, and feral caretakers aren’t going to bring their feral cats inside. So here are some more tips to protect you pets at home from coyotes:

Clear brush and vegetation. Remove habitat for small animals that may attract coyotes and to remove areas where coyotes can hide while stalking their prey.

Install cat posts. You can install one or more 7-foot or higher posts with a platform at the top for cats to use as an escape from coyotes. The posts need to be made of a material that the cats can climb, like tree bark, sisal rope, or outdoor carpet. When being chased by a predator a cat can hopefully climb the post and sit on the platform until the coyote is gone.

Remove items that will attract coyotes:

  • Pet food. Of course you aren’t leaving pet food outside and feeding the coyotes, are you? But even putting down your pets food and feeding them outside, if the pet drops any of the food on the ground (and then licks it up) will leave the SMELL of the food on the ground, and will attract coyotes. Feed pets indoors and ask your neighbors to do the same.
  • Other “food” you should pick up ASAP is fallen fruit.
  • Compost piles should be outside your pet yard.
  • Fountains and fish ponds are watering stations for coyotes. Consider draining them and replacing them with other landscaping, or surround them with electric wire.
  • Keep kitchen garbage stored inside until just prior to garbage pickup.
  • Vegetable gardens are delicious buffets for coyotes, so keep them as far away from areas where you play with your pets, outside of your pet yard.
  • Small animals such as rabbits or chickens housed outside are a HUGE attraction. As you can see in this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=A20PVog0ra0
  • Birdfeeders are delicious to coyotes. Hang them high out of reach, and not in your back yard, and do not overfill. Keep the area under them swept clean of seed.

Keep pets on leash with you, even in your yard.
Unless you have a coyote-proof yard (see “fencing” below) all pets in coyote-prone areas should only go outside while on a 6 ft leash or shorter held by a person. The smaller the dog, the greater the risk – but coyotes may also view bigger dogs as a threat (to their territory, food, or young) and attack. Coyotes are FAST. They can run up to 40 MPH, and have been clocked sprinting at 45 MPH!!!  Even if you are standing in the yard with your pet, there is no way you can stop a coyote from running in at that speed, and biting, killing, or carrying off your small pet.

Here’s a video shows how quickly a coyote can run up and grab a little dog. Fortunately, their Rottweiller saved his little friend’s life: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQbXSl1ReuQ

“Is my bigger dog safe?” The size of the coyote determines how big of prey they can carry off. They can easily kill a cat or small dog and dart off with it, even leaping over a fence with it, before you have time to do anything. Single coyotes are known to kill animals up to the size of and including Bobcats (20-30 pounds) with a single shake. (See studies here.) Packs of coyotes can take down an elk weighing over 500 pounds (reference here). That said, what are the chances your bigger dog is safe off-leash in your own fenced yard? There are too many variables to be able to make a definitive statement. Coyotes behave differently in different environments. You can use the tips on this page to reduce the risks as much as possible, but any size dog loose in a yard is at risk.

Fencing.
Coyotes are AMAZING athletes and very smart. Most can clear-jump without touching a 5 foot fence. (As you can see in this photo.) They can jump and get over a 6-7ft fence barely touching it with their paws – we’ve seen it live, it looks like they are levitating! Here’s a video of a coyote leaping like a cat onto a 6ft wall: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a3at0R8QZWE (the leap happens at the very end).

Fencing should be solid and smooth (like a smooth stucco or vinyl with no toe holds) and 6-7 feet tall, then add 15 to 20” long extenders that extend outward at a 45-degree to prevent the coyote from climbing the fence. Another option is chain link (or solid fencing) topped with www.coyoteroller.com. All fencing should also have hardware cloth buried 2 feet down and out along the perimeter, as coyotes are excellent diggers, and going under a fence is their preferred method.

Tall multi-wire or electric fencing or barbed wire on top of a solid tall fence is also effective. Of course check with your local ordinances before installing or modifying any fencing.

Coyote-proof enclosure.
Is a 6-sided (top and bottom) chain link or steel mesh run. Coyotes can easily tear through normal chicken wire, and are incredibly good diggers. You need to use heavy gauge wire mesh ( like “hardware cloth”) on all 6 sides (including the top AND bottom) of your small pet enclosure outside to make them coyote-proof. Washington State has some good diagrams on their website here http://wdfw.wa.gov/living/coyotes.html#problems

Here are some other resources if you’d like to read more about keeping your pets safe from coyotes:

http://www.laanimalservices.com/About_Animals/Wildlife/coyotes.htm
http://www.desertusa.com/june96/cycot_qa.html
http://www.ipm.ucdavis.edu/PMG/PESTNOTES/pn74135.html
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Blackhawks Player Raises Awareness for Pitbulls in New Billboard Campaign

CHICAGO – Blackhawks Left Winger Bryan Bickell has a message for Chicagoland residents: Learn the truth about pitbulls and adopt one today!

Bryan Bickell and fiance, Amanda Caskanette have partnered with Found Chicago and Adopt-a-Pet.com for a campaign aimed at debunking myths about pitbulls and raising awareness for shelter pets.

Beginning this week, Chicagoland residents will see a billboard featuring Bryan and Amanda with their pitbull, Bailey, in Streeterville along with televised public service announcements. A second billboard will go up in Lakeview later this month.

“Pitbulls and other dogs that look like them are discriminated against because most people don’t know the truth,” states Bickell.

“We’re excited to join forces with a great organization like Found Chicago, and with Bryan Bickell, to educate people about the true, loving nature of pitbull-type dogs,” says Abbie Moore, executive director of Adopt-a-Pet.com. “It’s our collective hope that the billboards and the public service announcements will make people give these maligned dogs a second look. We know if they do, they’ll fall in love.”

Bryan and Amanda will be celebrating the launch of the campaign with Blackhawk teammates Marian Hossa, Brent Seabrook, Duncan Keith, Corey Crawford, and All Star MVP Patrick Sharp on Thursday, March 22, from 6:00 – 9:00 p.m. at Dogs & Diamonds at Mon Ami Jewelry, 23 N. Wabash. Bryan, Amanda and attending Blackhawk players will be available for media interviews and photos throughout the evening. Dogs & Diamonds is a fundraiser benefiting Found Chicago’s life-saving programs.

“Found Chicago, Adopt-a-pet.com, and Bryan and Amanda recognize the importance of the Chicago Loves Pits campaign as it is one that we hope will help these amazing companion animals that are too often abused, mistreated and discriminated against. We want people to see these wonderful dogs for who they truly are: loving, kind and loyal pets,” says Alicia Boemi, Found Chicago’s director of programs.

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About Found Chicago: 
Found Chicago is the only non-profit rescue and re-homing center focused on individualized medical and behavioral rehabilitation for homeless dogs and cats that would otherwise be euthanized. Found’s community rehabilitation programs help dogs, cats and humans through our work with autistic children and returning veterans. Found’s also offers a training and rehabilitation center that is open to the public and their dogs who need help. Found offers training classes, board & train, 2-week boot camps and more. All training and rehabilitation is facilitated by the two best trainers and behavior counselors in Chicago, Curtis Scott and Jeff Jenkins. All funding from Found’s training programs goes directly to rescuing, rehabilitating and re-homing homeless dogs and cats in Chicago. Learn more at foundchicago.org.

About Adopt-a-Pet.com:
Adopt-a-Pet.com is North America’s largest non-profit pet adoption website, helping over 11,500 animal shelters, humane societies, SPCAs, pet rescue groups, and pet adoption agencies advertise their homeless pets to adopters. Over 200 Chicago-area animal shelters rely on Adopt-a-Pet.com’s services to help them find homes for the pets in their care. Every month, Adopt-a-Pet.com displays photos and descriptions of adoptable pets to over two million people trying to adopt a pet. Funding for Adopt-a-Pet.com is provided by the passionate pet lovers at Nestlé Purina and Bayer Animal Health

Do cats like to watch TV?

Some of us might have seen our cats watching birds or fish on our TV screen. Most of us have cats who love to look out the window. It’s all Cat TV. Their instincts demand it. Cats ambush. This takes planning. This takes reconnoitering. A cat’s vision is very motion-sensitive. They are constantly on alert to “signs of prey.” Part of a cat’s fascination with the movie credits were how they mimicked motions in nature. While it was symbolic (there was no actual prey on the screen) he saw similar patterns. We have given our sunniest window to the cats, because the kitty grass will grow there. It’s a wonderful balcony seat to what goes on three stories below, too. Squirrels climb trees, birds fly past, chipmunks work in the rock wall at the neighbor’s. Tiny people walk down the street and tiny cars go by.

One of our favorite cat authors at the wonderful Way of Cats blog noticed how their cat Tristin watched the movie credits on the TV one rainy afternoon, and wrote a great blog article about cats watching TV, plus at the end look for the two links to their other articles to read more about the Cat TV concept and explore movies to watch with our cat!

Help! My new dog is too…

We know that sometimes despite your best efforts, like following our “How to Avoid Picking the Wrong Pet” advice, you can end up with a dog that feels like the farthest thing possible from the “best” match for your home. Maybe you rescued a pet off the street, or inherited one when a family member passed, or you stepped up to save a coworker’s pet who was on their way to the pound. Whatever the reason, first we want to thank you for helping the pet in need! Before you make the drastic decision of trying to find a new home for your new dog, we are here to encourage you to take a deep breath, and see if you can give your new dog a TWO-WEEK TEST by trying these tips below first. These are the three top reasons we hear as to why a new dog might be deemed as “too” fill-in-the-blank and about-to-be rehomed. In just two weeks, your efforts could turn your Disaster Dog into your will-soon-be Perfect Pet! After all, remember perfect pets aren’t born that way – it takes time, love, patience and attention to good behavior to help make and keep your pet perfect for you.

1. “My new dog is too active.”

Dogs in a new home can appear to be out of control… but wait! Give them time to settle in, adjust to a new routine (yours, the one you set and keep for them), and you as their new pack leader. If your dog just came from a shelter or rescue boarding facility, he or she might have pent up extra energy from living in a cage for some time. Excess energy from kenneling will dissipate as your new adopted friend settles in to your new lifestyle. Sign up for a training session immediately. Basic obedience training can be a complete makeover for a dog with excess energy, as it exercises their mind as well as their body. Make sure to walk your dog every day as much as you can! Try throwing the ball or a toy around outside every morning while you drink your cup of coffee so that some of that energy can burn out. How about Doggie daycare? Enrolling in dog agility? Daily trips to an off-leash dog park? A dog walker mid-day if you are gone all day? Finding a neighbor or friend with another energetic dog for dog-sitting swapping so the two dogs can play and tire each other out? Rollerblading, skateboarding, or bicycling with the dog? The possibilities are almost endless! Here are some more great ideas to turn your “too active” pooch into a well-behaved pet:
You’d be amazed at the transformation that a too-active dog can make when they are trained and exercised.

2. “My new dog is too noisy.”

“My landlord says my new dog barks too much, and has to go.” “My neighbors are complaining.” No one likes a dog that barks too much. New dogs are more likely to bark or cry in their new home. Sad, lonely, anxious or bored — dogs that aren’t happy when you leave can make a lot of noise trying to let you know! Check out our article Help your dog stop crying when left alone which includes tips like playing calming music for your pet while you leave – such as Through a Dog’s Ear which many people say helps calm and quiet their dogs.

Your local rescue organization and local dog trainers can also be great sources of information and help if your dog is too noisy, so that your dog can lead a happy life in your home.

3. “My new dog is too unfriendly with my pets.”

So many dogs get returned to shelters after just one day for this reason, which is really sad and so often unnecessary. Dogs take time to settle in, and need their owner’s help with slow and safe introductions to other pets. Animals also take a while to develop relationships and bonds with one another. Try these how-to introduce your new dog properly articles for two weeks, and give your new dog a fair chance of getting along with your current pets:

3. “My new dog is too aggressive.”

Dog aggression is extremely complex to understand, and if you do not have a lot of experience interpreting why a dog is being aggressive, trying to fix the problem incorrectly can make it worse. We would avoid giving advice on how to handle dog aggression in writing, other than to say you should consult a professional dog behaviorist, who has references from past clients whom they’ve helped fix a similar dog aggression problem. Sometimes all it takes is one “session” with a good behaviorist to train YOU and the dog, and hopefully get you on the right path to reducing and eventually eliminating a dog that is acting aggressively.

4. “My new dog is too…”

There are other reasons we’ve heard for returning a newly adopted pet too, and many of them could have been fixed if the new owner was able and willing to ask for help from experienced dog caretakers in their community like dog rescuers, shelter staff, volunteers, behaviorists, and trainers. We think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at how willing people will be to try to help you keep your newly adopted dog. Dogs aren’t always perfect, but with a little time, effort, and these tips above we hope you can become perfect for one another.

If you’ve tried everything and you still are struggling with your dog’s behavior and feel it would be best to find her/him a new home, consider using Rehome by Adopt-a-Pet.com and The Petco Foundation. You can post a pet and she/he will appear on Adopt-a-Pet.com for millions of adopters to see. Get started here.