How To Adopt A Cat: The Official Cat Owners Guide

Thinking of adopting a cat? We’ve compiled an official guide to help you navigate the adoption process.

A step-by-step guide on how to adopt a cat — from where to begin looking to what the adoption process entails to how to prepare your home for your new pet.

By Tim Barribeau

Woman with adopted cat

Adopting a cat, especially if they’re your first, can feel like a terrifying jump into an ocean of the unknown. How do you adopt a cat? How do I choose a cat? What do I need to have at home? What does the application process look like? What if they hate me? As overwhelming as these questions can feel, most of them can be dealt with by taking a deep breath, doing some prep, and working your way through our step-by-step breakdown of the whole process.

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Step-by-Step Guide on How to Adopt a Cat

1. Determine what sort of cat are you able to adopt.

Quite possibly the most important part of the whole adoption process is establishing what sort of cat you want, and are able to, adopt. Are you looking for a young kitten? How about a fully grown cat? A senior? Are you able to adopt a cat with special needs who otherwise might not find a home? Are you able to adopt more than one cat at a time? Many are bonded with another cat, and even if not, will be far happier living in a situation with another cat. You never know who you’re going to meet at a shelter and fall in love with — so keep your mind open!

2. Browse local cat adoption listings.

Nose around for what cats and kittens are available in your neck of the woods. Adopt-a-Pet lets you search through tens of thousands of listings around the country and allows you to specify by breed, age, sex, and color — plus, if you don’t see the perfect match right away, you can set up an alert to let you know as soon as one matching your parameters is listed. Adopt-a-Pet works with shelters, rescues, and private individuals looking to find homes for cats — but also spend some time searching for local rescue and adoption organizations on the off chance they’re not listed on Adopt-a-Pet.

3. Arrange a visit.

How people adopt cats has changed in recent years. Covid has meant that many places can no longer allow you to just show up at their door and spend time with all the animals looking for a perfect match — but with a bit of foresight, you can still drown in a pile of kittens. Many rescue organizations and cat cafés allow you to book a time to meet their adoptable cats to find out how well they mesh with you. For as cute as a kitten seems on an online listing, sometimes it’s just not the same in person — and you might fall in love with a critter that you never expected.

4. Fill out all the paperwork.

Every adoption organization has its own paperwork requirements and fees, so before you can take the pet home you’ll need to fill it in and file it. These can vary hugely in how long and intensive they are. They’ll often ask questions about you and your household — the ages of people there, if there are any other pets, does anyone smoke, etc. Some may ask you what you’re looking for in a pet, and others may ask you to describe what sort of space you have set up for the animal (see more on that below). Most will require you to agree to registering your pet’s microchips, keeping up their medical care, and more. All of this is with the aim of making sure that the cat goes to a suitable and loving home that can meet all of their needs.

5. Buy important supplies.

Once you know for sure you’re going down the pet adoption road, make sure to stock up on all the important items you need to have at home before your cat moves in. You’ll need cat litter and a litter box — one sized for the age of your cat. A kitten will need a small litter box with low edges to climb in and out of (you can often buy disposable ones for this first stage of life), and as cats get old and can’t jump as well, you’ll want an easy entry point into the litter box. For adult cats, the rule of thumb is that a litter box should be 1.5x as long as the pet themself.

Beyond litter and a litter box, you’ll need food (again, as appropriate for the age of your potential pet), enrichment toys, a scratcher, treats, a brush, nail clippers, and somewhere comfy for them to cuddle up — though many of those can come with time.

6. Set aside a safe, dedicated space for your pet.

When you first introduce a cat to your home, chances are they’ll be anxious and scared. The best first step to making sure they’re happy is to give them a dedicated small space they can make their own and feel safe — ideally a small bathroom or guest room, if you have the space. You can put their basic supplies in there and try leaving some dirty clothes of yours in the room too, so they can get used to your scent. This gives them a place where they can explore and feel safe until they’re ready for the rest of your home — keep your eye out for a probing paw being stuck under a door as a sign that they want to see more.

7. Do a safety check around the house.

If you’ve never had a cat before, you might not be thinking of what things around the house are potentially dangerous to a new pet. While people may not think of cats as chewers the way that dogs are, they’re still pretty handy at nomming on plants and power cables. For the former, double check that your houseplants are cat safe — the ASPCA maintains a really great tool for finding this out. Some are so dangerous that even having them in the same rooms as your cat can be risky, and others might only slightly irritate their mouth if they chew on the leaves directly, so read up on what the risks are.

Cats are also especially at danger in the presence of essential oils, so be extremely careful using any of those anywhere a pet might end up.

Look around for potential places your future cat could hide or escape through. Dilara Göksel Parry, Certified Cat Behavior Consultant at Feline Minds and Cat Town Oakland’s Program Manager reminded us that cats can get through window screens. She recommends looking around your space from a cat’s point of view: “I tell people to look at their home from a cat’s perspective, low and high, to see where cats can get into that you haven’t thought about. That’s partially because they go hide in these places when they’re scared, often in the first days after adoption, and then the adopters can’t find them. They think that they’ve gotten out somehow — but they go behind your washer/dryer.”

8. Arrange any follow-up requirements.

Once you’re okayed for the adoption, you may need to plan some future requirements for your new pet. Chances are they’ll be microchipped, so you’ll need to register your cat ownership with one of the many microchip registries. Depending on your location, you may also be required to register your ownership (and potentially pay a pet license) with your city or county. You’ll want to schedule a first vet visit in the not too distant future, and the adoption agency themselves may want to organize a follow-up in a few months, just to see how things are going.

9. Bring your pet home.

Whew, you did it! You got all of the pieces together, got approved, and now you’re bringing a tiny fuzzy gremlin into your house who you’re going to love to pieces. If you’ve followed these instructions on how to adopt a cat, you should be more than ready, even if they do decide that their favorite activity is biting your big toe as hard as they can with their tiny razor kitten teeth.

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Therapy Dogs: How To Adopt A Therapy Dog

Interested in adopting a therapy dog? Read more to learn about the adoption process and what to expect.

By Savannah Admire

woman and her therapy dog being comforted on couch
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If you’ve spent much time with a dog, you likely already know how soothing their presence can be. Research has shown that animals can have a therapeutic effect on people who are stressed, anxious, or suffering from conditions like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Therapy dogs are dogs who are trained to provide comfort and support to people in need and have become common volunteer workers in hospitals, nursing homes, schools, care facilities, and even disaster areas.

If you are a good fit for a therapy dog and are willing to make the commitment, then adopting a therapy dog or training your dog to provide care and comfort to people who most need it can be a very rewarding experience. Learn all about therapy dog requirements — including that they must be up-to-date on their vaccinations and have a clean bill of health — and how to get a therapy dog of your own.

What is a therapy dog?

Therapy dogs work in a variety of facilities to help people deal with stress, trauma, depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. While these canines don’t go through the strict training required for service dogs, they still need to possess a calm temperament and respond well to commands from their human handler.

Unlike service dogs and emotional support animals, which are assigned to a specific individual, therapy dogs can provide emotional support to anyone. They often visit locations on a volunteer basis to offer a soft head to pet and some understanding snuggles. You may have seen a therapy dog visiting a retirement home or hospital, but they also offer relief to stressed-out students in colleges, universities, and elementary schools and may even support athletes at sporting events and competitions.

“There can be a lot of pressure that athletes put on themselves, so just to be able to see that friendly face and pet a dog, it’s great therapy for anyone,” Tracey Callahan Molnar, therapy dog handler and part of USA Gymnastics’ new pet therapy program, says.

How to adopt a therapy dog

Step 1: Adopt

If you want to start the adoption process for a therapy dog, the best place to begin is by searching online dog adoption listings or visiting your local shelters and rescue organizations. Unlike service dogs, you don’t have to worry about how to apply for a therapy dog. You’re just looking for a dog with the right temperament to be a therapy dog, which depends less on the breed and more on the canine’s individual personality.

Spend some time visiting potential therapy dogs at your local shelter, playing with them, and observing their behavior. While an overly energetic dog may be a bit too rough to work with patients, a calm and friendly pup could make for the perfect therapy dog. If you feel happier spending time with a dog, there’s a good chance that they can cheer up others, too.

Step 2: Train

The sooner you can start training a future therapy dog, the better. But how are therapy dogs trained? You can purchase online training courses, but you will likely still want to consult a professional dog trainer to learn the best methods and practices. The goal of training is to make sure your dog demonstrates positive behaviors, like patience with strangers, and avoids negative ones, like jumping and barking excessively.

If you feel overwhelmed trying to handle training on your own, consider enrolling your dog in training group classes or working one-on-one with a professional trainer specializing in therapy dogs.

Step 3: Register

Once you feel your dog is ready to volunteer as a therapy dog, register your pet with a reputable organization. You will need to gather documentation from your veterinarian showing that your dog is healthy and up to date on all vaccinations.

There are a number of therapy dog organizations in the U.S., and you can find recommendations on the American Kennel Club (AKC) website. In most cases, your dog will have to pass a certification test, which is your opportunity to demonstrate that they have all the right qualities for therapy work. If your dog doesn’t pass, the organization will likely ask you to continue training until they meet the requirements.

Requirements for a therapy dog

Each therapy dog certification board has its own specific requirements in place, but in general, your dog should meet the following conditions to be certified:

  • Be at least one year old
  • Have a current rabies vaccination
  • Have a clean bill of health from a vet within the last 12 months
  • Be up to date on all core vaccinations
  • Respond to and obey commands

The AKC also recommends that a therapy dog pass the Canine Good Citizen (CGC) test before registration. This test focuses on ten core behaviors that your dog should be able to perform:

  • Accept the approach of a friendly stranger
  • Sit politely for petting
  • Allow someone to touch and examine their ears and front feet
  • Walk on a loose lead
  • Walk through a crowd of people
  • Sit and lie down on command and stay in place
  • Come when called
  • React appropriately and calmly to another dog
  • React calmly to any distractions
  • Supervised separation (show no anxiety when left with another person)

Qualities that a therapy dog should have

Before you worry about passing an exam for registration, make sure your pet has all the qualifications for a therapy dog. In addition to having a calm temperament, your dog should also be gentle and respond quickly to commands. Dogs who are overly energetic or easily startled don’t make for good therapy dogs, nor do dogs who become anxious around strangers or large groups of people.

Here are a few more qualities to look for in a potential therapy dog:

  • They enjoy being touched and petted
  • They’re outgoing and friendly
  • They don’t shed excessively (you don’t want to give clinic staff a mess to clean up)
  • They don’t react aggressively to mishandling
  • They’re able to adapt to their environment

Cost of a therapy dog

How much is a therapy dog? In addition to the adoption fee, the cost can vary widely depending on how you plan to train your dog. If you work with a professional trainer, you can expect to spend a significant amount on classes, whereas if you choose to train a dog yourself, all you really have to worry about is the cost of an adoption fee and dog supplies.

You can even purchase a fully-trained therapy dog, but this route can cost anywhere from $1,000 to $5,000. Research trained therapy dogs for adoption, or talk to your vet about finding a fully-trained therapy dog.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

Can I adopt a dog and train them for therapy work myself?

Therapy dog training is accessible online, and many pet parents train their dogs on their own. Doing so can help you and your dog form a stronger bond, which is essential in therapy settings.

Can any breed become a therapy dog?

If a dog has the proper temperament, they can be trained to be a therapy dog. Many rescue dogs are excellent comforters for those in need of animal-assisted therapy.

Are there age restrictions for therapy dogs?

Your dog cannot be registered as a therapy dog until they’re at least one year old, but there is no age limit on therapy dogs. In fact, senior dogs often have the ideal calm temperament for therapy dogs.

References

Current Perspectives on Therapy Dog Welfare in Animal-Assisted Interventions

Physiological and behavioral effects of animal-assisted interventions on therapy dogs in pediatric oncology settings

AKC Recognized Therapy Dog Organizations

What is Canine Good Citizen (CGC)?

Take it from the experts, a pet can change your life

USA Gymnastics using pet therapy to support athletes


Savannah Admire is a writer, editor, and pet parent to two dogs and a cat. When she’s not writing, you can find her reading, playing Animal Crossing, or being an obnoxious nerd about her favorite movies and TV shows. She lives in Maryland, where she constantly debates whether or not to get a third dog.

Rescue Dog Transport: What Is Animal Transporting?

Learn about rescue dog transport—a vital process relocating adoptable pets from overcrowded shelters to areas where they’re eagerly welcomed.

By Savannah Admire

Dog in transport car to pet adoption
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Pet adoption transport is the process of moving adoptable pets from shelters in areas with high pet overpopulation to sites with a demand for pets. This process allows overpopulated shelters in other regions of the country, such as the South and Midwest, to send adoptable animals to shelters with a high demand for — and low supply of — pets. Pet adoption transport organizations provide transportation by air, ground, or rail and offer food and medical care for pets during transport. Pet transport ultimately ensures that as many animals find forever homes as possible.

Why is pet adoption transport important?

Shelters and rescue organizations that take advantage of pet express transport services can ensure that animals have the best chance for adoption. By transporting animals in need to other parts of the country for rescue, overpopulated shelters can help reduce the number of at-risk animals in their facilities. This, in turn, allows these organizations to direct more resources to the pets still in their shelter.

On the flip side, rescues that receive transported adoptable animals can increase the variety of pets available for potential adopters and encourage visitors to their facilities by promoting their expanded animal availability. With more pets and visitor traffic, these organizations can also draw in more resources, allowing them to make a bigger impact on their community and serve more people and animals.

Most importantly, pet adoption transport reduces the risk of euthanasia due to shelter overpopulation and limited resources, saving lives and helping adoptable pets find much-needed homes.

How does pet adoption transport work?

Rescue and shelter volunteers often play a significant role in transporting pets across state lines to other organizations — and the animals’ future homes. How to move pets across the country varies depending on the program, but the process usually involves driving animals to another shelter in a vehicle designed for this purpose, with properly spaced and secured kennels. In some cases, pets may also travel via air if the funds are available. If you’ve ever researched how to fly a dog across the country, you know how challenging the logistics can be.

Before any animal is transported to a new location, they should be thoroughly screened for any infectious diseases or aggressive behavior to limit the possibility of spreading illness or causing injury to themselves or other animals in the vehicle.

What are the types of pet adoption transport?

There are several types of pet adoption transport, but the most common is shelter-to-shelter relocation. Rescue organizations with overcrowded facilities communicate with shelters with a high demand for adoptable animals and organize pet transport to free up space and help more pets find loving homes.

Individual volunteers or grassroots organizations may organize more informal pet adoption transport. These people may not be specifically associated with any shelter but help to transport pets, some of whom may already have adoptive families waiting for them in another location. Ideally, these individuals know how to transport a dog across the country safely and bring them to their new family.

If you’re interested in relocating a pet, be wary of commercial pet adoption transport operations. Some individuals offer to transport pets for adoption solely for profit, so make sure to research any pet transport service and go through a legitimate shelter or rescue organization whenever possible.

How much do pet transport services cost?

In most cases, the pet transport service price is covered by the shelter or rescue organization that plans the transport. The rescue may even add the cost of transportation to the adoption fee to help cover costs and ensure that they can continue to care for animals in need. If you plan to adopt a pet who will have to be transported to your location, clarify with the shelter or rescue whether you need to pay for transport.

What should you consider when choosing a pet adoption transport service?

While transporting pets for adoption can be a life-saving endeavor, it’s important that the animals are moved safely and that their needs are met as they’re transported. If you decide to adopt a pet that must be transported to your location, make sure to ask about:

  • How often pets will be examined for signs of stress or sickness (every two to four hours is best practice)
  • How pets will be housed while in the vehicle
  • Whether pets have plenty of space to be comfortable — they should be able to stand up, turn around, and lie down
  • The established process for emergencies during transport

The best way to transport a pet across the country is to ensure they are comfortable and have regular breaks to go outside, stretch their legs, and access water. Before finalizing a pet adoption that requires transport, don’t hesitate to ask plenty of questions to make sure your new pet will be safe, secure, and cared for throughout their journey to you.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

Who is involved in pet adoption transport?

Shelters or rescues usually organize pet adoption transport, and will sometimes call on their volunteers to help move animals to other states where they can be adopted.

Are there risks associated with pet adoption transport?

Traveling can be stressful, making animals more vulnerable to illness or infection (there is a risk of spreading infectious diseases) or heightening behavioral issues.

Is pet adoption transport regulated?

Pet adoption transport is not regulated, so it’s critical that organizers ensure that animals are properly secured and monitored throughout their journey.

Can I adopt a pet through pet adoption transport?

When you apply to adopt online, the pet may be in another state and must be transported to you. The shelter or rescue organization may include the pet transport cost in your adoption fee, or you may have to pay an additional fee to cover it.

References

Mixed Methods Study Examining Organizational and Socioeconomic Factors Affecting Management of Pet Populations in Shelters

Pet transportation by air: a study of customer experiences and expectations using AVIH services

Relocation of dogs and cats for pet adoption in the United States

ASPCA Animal Relocation


Savannah Admire is a writer, editor, and pet parent to two dogs and a cat. When she’s not writing, you can find her reading, playing Animal Crossing, or being an obnoxious nerd about her favorite movies and TV shows. She lives in Maryland, where she constantly debates whether or not to get a third dog.

How To Introduce A Kitten To A Cat

Are you bringing home a new kitten? Learn how to introduce a kitten to older cats and prevent territorial behavior.

woman introducing her fluffy cat to kitten
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If you’re a cat parent who is considering bringing a new kitten into the home, or if you’ve already adopted one, you’re likely wondering how best to introduce your resident cat to their new family member. Introducing a new kitten to a resident cat can be challenging, and, depending on the cats’ ages and personalities, it may take days or months to do so successfully. However, it’s important to introduce cats slowly and carefully to prevent aggression or fighting.

Below are some guidelines and helpful tips to get your new feline family members off to a good start and hopefully on their way to becoming best buddies for the rest of their lives.

How to choose a new kitten to bring home

If you have yet to adopt a new kitten, keep in mind that most cat experts recommend introducing a new cat who matches the resident cat’s energy level, size, and personality. Bringing home a kitten if you have a senior or low-key adult cat can be like asking a grandparent to babysit a toddler 24/7: The kitten will be sad not having a playmate, and the older cat will be stressed by the kitten asking to play constantly.

In fact, kittens are much happier in pairs, so if you’re set on adopting a kitten, consider adopting two. It may seem overwhelming, but it could actually be the best solution for everyone, as the kittens will play with each other and leave your adult cat to do their own thing. Adopting two kittens will also help them avoid Single Kitten Syndrome.

Some cat experts also believe that gender plays a small role in how two cats will get along and suggest two males or a male/female match work best. Neutering and spaying all cats, ideally two to four weeks before the introduction, is also essential so they are fully recovered.

No matter which new kitten or cat you bring home, though, it’s important to follow the steps below to successfully introduce them to your resident cat.

How to introduce a new cat to your cat

Step One: Isolation

Confine the new cat to one room with a litter box, food, water, and a bed. Feed your current cat(s) and the newcomer on either side of the door to this room. Don’t put the food so close to the door that the cats are too upset by each other to eat. This will help to start things out on the right foot by associating something enjoyable (eating) with each others’ presence. Gradually move the dishes closer to the door until the cats can eat calmly directly on either side.

You can also consider using the crate method, which essentially replaces a separate room with a very large crate, which is especially helpful if you live in a space that does not have an adequate separate room.

If you have adopted the new cat from an environment where they could have been exposed to illnesses, such as a shelter or the street, follow your vet’s recommendations for the duration of this isolation. Often your vet will test for FeLV and FIV and then recommend isolation for seven to 10 days. That may seem like a long time, but it will not only keep your resident cat healthy but also give your new cat a chance to get adjusted to their environment’s sounds and smells, improving the chances that the first face-to-face introduction with your resident cat(s) will go well.

Step Two: Scent / sign intro

After your new cat’s isolation period is over, and you’re sure your new cat is healthy, you can take the following steps. Advance to the next step only after all cats are okay with each other during each step.

  1. Switch sleeping blankets between the new cat and resident cat(s) so they can become accustomed to each other’s scent. Also, put the scented blankets underneath the food dishes.
  2. Use two doorstops to prop open the door just enough to allow the cats to see each other but not get out and repeat the feeding process.
  3. Put the new cat in a secure cat carrier, and open the door so the resident cat can come in and sniff around the new cat’s room while the cat is in the carrier.
  4. Confine resident cats in another room and let the new cat explore the rest of the house. This switch also allows the cats to experience each other’s scent without a face-to-face meeting. It also allows the newcomer to become familiar with their new surroundings without being frightened by other animals.

Step Three: First meeting

Open the isolation room door, let your resident cat enter, and calmly observe. Playing calming music or talking in a calm, friendly voice to the cats may help you feel less stressed, which will help the cats, too. If your cats like treats, give them lots of treats along with verbal praise. Some cats do best if distracted with their favorite toys, so they are not focusing too intently on each other.

When the cats are together, keep an eye out for the following warning signs:

  • Hissing, puffy tails, and growling: A little bit of this behavior is normal but should be minimal if you have taken the time to follow the steps above. Don’t give your cats the opportunity to intensify; you are trying to avoid the cats associating each other’s presence with fearful or aggressive behavior. A bad first impression can be difficult to change.
  • Fearful or aggressive reactions: If either cat escalates their behavior to constant hissing or growling, or if there is any stalking (like they are hunting prey), cornering, swatting, or big posturing displays of arched backs and fur puffed out, separate the cats back into their own spaces immediately. If it was just a hissing match, wait a few hours and try another face-to-face meeting for a few minutes. If the aggression seemed serious, you may have to take a step or two back in the introduction process.

If the meeting is going well, let the cats spend up to 10 minutes together (although less time is fine, too). Then separate them back into their own spaces. Letting them stay if it is going well can be tempting, but it is much better not to push it and have the first meeting end badly.

two cats getting upset and hissing
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How can I prevent aggressive behavior during introductions?

The above process of slowly introducing your resident cat to a new cat will do a lot to help reduce aggression. When you reach the step of a face-to-face introduction, you may want to have a water squirt bottle in one hand and a blanket in the other in case you need to intervene in a sudden attack. Supervise their interactions closely at all times, and be patient. It may take some time for the two cats to become friends, but most cats can learn to live together peacefully with time and patience.

Step Four: Slowly increase time together

If your cats successfully spend up to 10 minutes together, you can increase their time together. For example, your sessions might increase to two sessions of 10 minutes each on day two.

Continue to observe your cats vigilantly, however, because sometimes a meeting will seem to be going well, and then there’s a spat. If a small spat occurs between the cats, do not attempt to physically intervene; cats can make lots of noise and roll around quite dramatically without either cat being injured. Instead, use a spray bottle to squirt water on the cats to separate them. If that doesn’t do it, try tossing a blanket over one of them and quickly corralling the other cat out of the room. Give them both a chance to calm down for a day or more before re-introducing them to each other.

When can I consider the introduction process successful?

You can consider the introduction process successful when you observe signs showing that the cats are getting along, such as greeting each other by sniffing or touching noses, headbutting or rubbing against each other, grooming each other, and, of course, snuggling and sleeping together.

More new cat tips

Once you’ve made it through the introduction process, there are still some things you can do to ensure your cats continue to get along, including:

  • Keep the second litter box in the isolation room even after the cats are out together. Make sure that none of the cats are being “ambushed” by another while trying to use the litter box.
  • If you want to move the second litter box, do so gradually, a few feet at a time, to the new location.
  • Clean all litter boxes more frequently.
  • Increase the amount of playtime and exercise both cats are getting to help expend their energy and keep them calm.
  • Keep the resident cat’s schedule as close as possible to what it was before the newcomer’s appearance.
  • Try using calming products to help de-stress cats who exhibit signs of stress.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

How long should I wait to introduce my cat to a new kitten?

Depending on the cats’ ages and personalities, it may take days or months to introduce a new kitten to a resident cat. Follow the above steps for a slow introduction.

What if the cats still aren’t getting along after extended efforts?

Consult a veterinarian and/or a certified cat behaviorist. If the issue truly cannot be resolved, you might consider rehoming your cat via Rehome by Adopt a Pet.

What are the warning signs when introducing cats?

Warning signs when introducing cats include hissing, puffy tails, and growling. A little of this behavior is okay, but if it escalates to constant hissing or growling, or if there is any stalking (like they are hunting prey), cornering, swatting, or big posturing displays of arched backs and fur puffed out, the cats should be separated.

References

How Should I Introduce a New Cat or Kitten to My Existing Cat

Cat to Cat Introductions

Renting With Pets: What to Know Before You Sign a Lease

Considering renting with pets? Read more to learn about renter policies and how to navigate them.

woman with birds and dog calling rental office looking for pet-friendly apartment
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One of the top reasons shelters are given by those who surrender their pets is that they are moving to a place that does not allow pets or due to a landlord’s pet restrictions. It’s true that finding a rental apartment or house when you have pets can take extra time, patience, flexibility, and effort, but isn’t keeping your pets worth it?

With some extra knowledge about how to find a pet-friendly rental or negotiate with your landlord, there’s no reason you can’t find a suitable place to live and keep your pet by your side. Here are some tips for finding your ideal pet-friendly rental so you and your furry family can stay together.

Plan ahead

While sometimes life catches us by surprise with a sudden relocation, the more time you have to plan, the more likely you’ll be able to find your ideal pet-friendly rental. Pet-friendly rentals are often in high demand, so it is important to start your search early.

You can also plan ahead in more unconventional ways — for example, by training your pet or passing the Canine Good Citizen test. You’ll put both you and your pet in a position for success with your new landlord and any other tenants if you’re confident that they will be respectful of others (including not jumping on new people) and have a handle on any behavior that may cause them to be loud (such as separation anxiety). A letter of reference from previous landlords regarding your pet’s good behavior and preparing a pet resume can help too.

How to find a pet-friendly apartment

Before you begin your search for a pet-friendly apartment, you should be aware that you may have to be willing to live in a less desirable location if you want to rent a pet-friendly rental. Also, be aware that most leases have pet restrictions, so even if you find an apartment that doesn’t mention a ban on pets in its listing description, it is important to read the lease carefully before signing it.

That said, even if a lease does not allow pets, you may be able to work with the landlord to get an exception. There are also many great pet-friendly apartments out there — you just need to put in the work to find them.

Where can you find pet-friendly rental listings?

There are a number of sources for finding pet-friendly rental listings, including:

  1. Local animal shelters, humane societies, and rescues: Some organizations maintain printed or online listings of pet-friendly landlords, buildings, or even post pet-friendly vacancies on old-fashioned pushpin bulletin boards.
  2. Local businesses: You can look for rental listings in real estate offices and community centers, as well as your local vet’s office, pet boarding facilities, and pet supply stores.
  3. Rental listing websites: Many rental listing websites allow you to search for listings that allow dogs, cats, or both, such as Peoplewithpets.com. Other traditional rental search websites, such as Zillow.com and Trulia.com, have filters for pet-friendly listings. Even if a site doesn’t have a specific filter, however, you can search listings by keywords such as “pet,” “dog,” or “cat” in the search box to find listings that may include phrases such as “dogs ok” or “small pet allowed” in the listing description.
  4. Craigslist: For metropolitan markets (and, increasingly, many rural communities), Craigslist.org is the most well-known (and free) site for listing rentals and may offer more untraditional arrangements (like sublets) that could work well for you and your pet.

What is a pet-friendly lease agreement?

You may find that your lease includes a pet agreement, also known as a pet addendum. This agreement is a document that legally establishes that the landlord is allowing the tenant (in this case, you) to have a pet in their apartment. The agreement, however, usually comes with rules that the tenant must follow, including assuming responsibility for the pet and any damages that they may cause to the property.

Research rental pet agreements

Before you sign a rental pet agreement, make sure to do some research to make sure the agreement you’re signing is reasonable and that you can meet all of its requirements. Pet agreements are legally binding documents, after all.

Sample pet agreements

Most pet agreements are straightforward and reasonable. Take, for instance, this sample pet agreement from California, which requires that tenants essentially take care of and clean up after their pet, do all they can to keep them from being unnecessarily noisy or otherwise disturbing to neighboring tenants, and agree to pay for any damage their pets cause the property.

Research rental pet insurance

When renting with a pet, you may also want to research rental insurance that includes pet liability coverage. Policies vary, but some renter’s insurance policies can cover the costs of fixing damage your pet causes to the property (for example, chewed door frames) and can also help pay for medical expenses if your pet injures a guest in your home.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

Are there any restrictions on the types of pets I can have?

Restrictions will vary from property to property (and landlord to landlord), but it’s not uncommon for some to ban specific breeds considered dangerous (whether that’s true or not). For example, Pit Bulls are often banned because of their (largely unfair) reputation for being dangerous.

What if I want to adopt a pet after moving in?

If your apartment is pet-friendly, you should let your landlord know you are adopting a pet. Even if they allow pets, they may impose a fee or require you to send a pet agreement. If your apartment is not pet-friendly, you may try to convince your landlord to allow you to adopt a particular pet. Ultimately, however, you may have to move to a pet-friendly property.

Can my landlord make me get rid of my pet if it becomes a problem?

Your landlord can’t make you get rid of your dog without going through the proper legal channels. Laws and regulations vary based on where you live and other factors but make sure you know your rights if faced with a threat from your landlord.

References

Renting With Pets: A Pathway to Housing Insecurity?

“Pets Negotiable”: How Do the Perspectives of Landlords and Property Managers Compare with Those of Younger Tenants with Dogs?

California Pet Agreement

Moving With Your Cat

How to Write a Killer Dog ‘Resume’ for Your Landlord


Julie Zeilinger is a NYC-based writer and editor whose writing has been published in Marie Claire, Vox, HuffPost, Forbes, and other publications. She is also the author of two books: College 101: A Girl’s Guide to Freshman Year(2014) and A Little F’d Up: Why Feminism Is Not a Dirty Word(2012). She is the mom to Baloo, a two-year-old Bichpoo and foster mom to dogs via Badass Animal Rescue.

Should You Adopt a Puppy When You Have an Older Dog?

By Julie Zeilinger

Puppy and older Labrador Dog playing in the grass together
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It’s a thought many pet parents of older dogs have: Should I adopt a puppy for my dog? It’s a well-meaning and valid question, but one that should be carefully considered. While bringing home a young dog or puppy might “liven up” your older dog and help them stay young, this is not always the case. Sadly, the reverse is often true.

If you’ve started to ask yourself this question, consider these important factors when choosing a new companion for your home.

What are the benefits of getting a puppy with an older dog?

There are benefits of getting a puppy when you have an older dog, including:

  • Providing your senior with companionship and mental stimulation, which can help prevent cognitive decline and reduce stress.
  • Giving your senior a reason to be more active, which can help keep them mobile and deter the onset of certain health conditions.

Your older dog could very well benefit a puppy as well by helping guide them through their training by modeling the rules of the house.

How to decide if you should get a second dog

First and foremost, carefully consider your older dog’s health, energy, and temperament before bringing a new dog into your home. Your dog is an individual, and nobody knows them better than you. Have they reacted well to puppies and/or other dogs in the past? Are they naturally social? Do they struggle with being alone?

It’s also important to remember that if you decide to bring home a second dog, you must be prepared for all the responsibilities that come with a new family member, including the financial responsibility and time needed for training and taking care of them. You should only bring a second dog into your home, therefore, if you want one — not only because you think they might benefit your resident dog.

If you decide to go for it, you’ll want to know how to prepare for a second pet. Here are some questions to consider:

Will a new puppy be welcome in the home?

If your dog is not naturally social and has shown aggression or even disinterest towards other dogs or puppies, they likely will not welcome another dog in their home. It’s also important to consider the puppy’s temperament and breed: If your resident dog is a breed that tends to be more sedentary, it’s best to avoid adopting a large-breed or high-energy puppy.

How far apart in age are they?

Your senior or adult dog might be spry now, but think ahead. Will they still be a good match for an adolescent companion in two or three years? And will you still be able to manage a young dog and an older dog who may need more intense care?

Will a puppy help my older dog stay young and active?

A puppy may help your older dog stay active, but an older dog will likely not be able to match a puppy’s energy at all times. You should plan to be able to separate your older dog from your puppy throughout the day to give your senior time to decompress.

Will a puppy affect my older dog’s routines and comfort?

A puppy could very well affect your older dog’s comfort and even cause stress. Senior dogs already experiencing cognitive decline or who have demonstrated difficulty adjusting their routine in the past probably won’t take well to a new puppy’s routines.

Will my older dog need more attention after bringing in a puppy?

If your older dog has been the only pet in the home for most or all of their lives, and they are happy as an only pet, they may prefer all your attention. If you bring in a new dog, remember to make sure your older pet receives extra one-on-one time with you every day.

Tips for raising a puppy with an older dog

Before you begin to consider how you’ll raise your new puppy alongside your older dog, it’s crucial to properly introduce them. Make sure your puppy and resident dog are vaccinated, neutered or spayed, and in good health (if either is ill, they may need to be kept separate from the other while being treated). Once everyone is healthy, follow these steps:

Introducing your puppy and older dog

Your new puppy and resident dog’s first introduction should be outside in neutral or unfamiliar territory, with both dogs on leashes. Note that if your puppy is very young and hasn’t completed their vaccinations, they shouldn’t be in a public place, so consider asking a neighbor or friend to use their yard.

The resident dog should approach the puppy first, and the puppy should be restrained from jumping or sniffing. If there are no signs of aggression, the dogs can spend five or ten minutes together. If there are signs of aggression, separate the dogs; you may need to walk them instead, with the adult dog leading and the puppy behind.

Once home, you may want to keep the puppy in a “starter room,” ideally one your resident dog doesn’t use for sleeping or eating, at least at first. Then, the dogs can start going on leashed walks together and build up toward being off-leash together in a contained area while supervised. You can slowly increase the amount of time they spend together.

When introducing dogs, it’s important to try to model calm behavior yourself, as dogs respond to humans’ emotions and behavior. You should also keep all initial meetings short and closely monitor both dogs’ body language.

Welcoming your new puppy

As important as it is to make sure your new puppy is properly introduced to and eventually gets along with your resident dog, it’s also crucial to pay attention to everything you need to do to welcome your new dog to your home.

For example, especially if your new dog is an older puppy or young adult, remember the “3-3-3 rule”: expect your new dog to feel overwhelmed or nervous for three days, take three weeks to settle in, and three months to build trust and bond with you. They may also express some anxiety symptoms, like a reduced appetite or hiding. Just show your new dog patience and understanding and establish a consistent schedule so they feel secure.

Training your puppy

Training a new puppy is crucial whether you have a resident dog or not. After puppy-proofing your home, employ positive reinforcement training to reinforce good behavior. The good news is your older dog may help train your puppy by modeling positive behavior.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

Should I get a second dog?

When deciding whether or not to get a second dog, you should take your individual pet into consideration. For example, if your older dog is experiencing health problems, they likely won’t be able to keep up with a puppy’s rambunctiousness.


Julie Zeilinger is a NYC-based writer and editor whose writing has been published in Marie Claire, Vox, HuffPost, Forbes, and other publications. She is also the author of two books: College 101: A Girl’s Guide to Freshman Year(2014) and A Little F’d Up: Why Feminism Is Not a Dirty Word(2012). She is the mom to Baloo, a two-year-old Bichpoo and foster mom to dogs via Badass Animal Rescue.

Single Kitten Syndrome: Symptoms & Treatments

Thinking of adopting a cat? Learn more about the risks of single kitten syndrome before choosing an adopted friend.

single kitten being held by foster mom
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If you adopted a single kitten under the age of six months, you may begin to notice some troubling behavior over time. If your kitten is excessively vocal, destructive, and/or aggressive, they are likely experiencing “single kitten syndrome,” a condition that can develop in kittens who are not raised with other kittens or cats.

Though it’s not a recognized medical condition, “single kitten syndrome” is an anecdotal grouping of behaviors that can be detrimental to both a cat and their pet parents. In fact, it’s the main reason that many shelters and rescue organizations encourage or even require adopters to bring home kittens in pairs.

Not every single kitten adopted alone will experience this syndrome, but if your lone kitten is exhibiting signs of it, there’s hope for help. Read on to learn more about single kitten syndrome and how you can help a cat experiencing it.

What is single kitten syndrome?

Single kitten syndrome, also known as “only kitten syndrome” or “single cat syndrome,” is a condition that can develop in kittens who are not raised with other kittens or cats. Kittens are almost always born in a litter with multiple siblings, and along with their mom’s care, those litter dynamics play an important role in kittens’ social development.

Essentially, lone kittens grow up without the benefit of socializing with their littermates and don’t receive the kind of feedback from their fellow kittens that helps teach them which behaviors are appropriate and which are not.

“If a kitten from a litter of one is introduced to a kitten that has grown up with other kittens, [the lone kitten] will play more roughly than normal. Hand-raised kittens are even more inept: some turn out to be so aggressive that other kittens actively avoid them,” says renowned anthrozoologist John Bradshaw in his book Cat Sense: How the New Feline Science Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet. Other kittens may become “excessively bonded” to their pet parents.

Symptoms of single kitten syndrome

Symptoms of single kitten syndrome can include:

How can I recognize if my kitten has single kitten syndrome?

If you have adopted a kitten and they start exhibiting the above symptoms, they may have single kitten syndrome.

What are the long-term effects of single kitten syndrome?

Without intervention from their pet parent, a veterinarian, or a behaviorist, cats with single kitten syndrome will continue to engage in destructive behaviors. What’s more, cats experiencing single kitten syndrome are all too often returned to the shelters or rescues from which they were adopted or otherwise surrendered by their families because of their behaviors.

“Hand-reared kittens may develop extreme personalities because they miss out on these interactions due to their lack of contact with other cats,” says Bradshaw. But providing socialization during the third and fourth months of age, even if it’s late, can be beneficial. “…it seems possible that continued interactions with their peer group during adolescence could make a major contribution to cats’ development as social animals.”

How to treat only kitten syndrome.

The best treatment for single kitten syndrome is often to adopt another cat. While bringing home one new family member can (understandably) feel like a big step and commitment in and of itself, it may actually make your life easier, and benefit your cat, to bring home another.

If you go this route, it’s best to choose a cat who is as close in age, size, and energy level as your resident cat as possible. Some cat experts recommend having cats of opposite sexes, too (but be sure to spay and neuter them both!).

If you decide to adopt a new cat, however, make sure to introduce your resident cat and new family member carefully and slowly. You’ll want to follow a multi-step process that involves isolating your cats in their own environments and then introducing each one to the other’s scent. Only when both cats seem ready, introduce them face to face.

Provide your kitten with plenty of toys and activities.

If you can only adopt one kitten, it is important to provide them with plenty of stimulation and attention. Play with your kitten at least three times a day or until they are so tired they don’t want to play anymore.

It’s also often beneficial to provide your kitten a secure “room with a view” with a cat tree or sofa backed up against a window with a view of trees and birds. Bonus points if you can hang up a bird feeder and let your cat observe from the inside.

You can also bring home new objects for your kitten to hide in, such as big cardboard boxes or paper shopping bags (with the handles safely cut off) and tall objects on which they can safely climb. You may also want to buy or make enough toys to hide some and do a daily rotation. Essentially, you want to make your kitten’s life as fun and stimulating as possible.

Provide your kitten with a secure, cozy place to sleep.

You can recreate the comforting environment a kitten would experience with their mother and littermates by providing them with a covered, heated cat bed (one specifically designed for cats — a human heating pad will get too hot) on your bed if possible, or on a chair right next to your bed. You can also give them a stuffed animal the size of another kitten or cat for company.

Consult with a veterinarian or certified cat behaviorist.

Kittens should see a veterinarian within the first week of coming to a new home for routine care, and a vet you’ve already established a relationship with is a great resource to turn to if you begin to notice symptoms of single kitten syndrome. It’s important to rule out any underlying medical issues that could be causing the behavioral symptoms that also come with single kitten syndrome.

You may also consider enlisting the help of a certified cat behaviorist, who can help you address your cat’s behavioral issues. Before hiring a behaviorist, however, make sure you ask a few key questions, such as if they’ve worked with clients with similar issues (and, if so, what the outcome was) and if they can provide references.

What if none of this works?

What if you sought out a professional and it did not help, or you are unable to make the investment in helping your cat with their behavior problems? Rehoming your cat to a family that can better address these needs may be a very kind and responsible choice. Rehome is a peer-to-peer adoption service that allows pet parents to post their pets on adoptapet.com to be seen by millions of potential adopters. If you’re in the difficult position of considering whether to rehome your pet, it’s important to take an honest look at the situation and do your homework. Rehome can help make the process easy and as safe as possible. When you’ve done all you can, it’s important to remember that pets are individuals, and sometimes your home might not be the right fit.

Can single kitten syndrome be prevented?

The best way to prevent single kitten syndrome is to adopt two kittens at the same time. Being raised with another kitten offers cats many benefits, including keeping each other occupied (and, therefore, out of trouble) and physically and mentally engaged. Many kittens are available for adoption at local shelters and rescue groups across the United States. Start your search for a friendly cat or kitten at adoptapet.com

FAQs (People Also Ask):

How is single kitten syndrome different from fading kitten syndrome?

Fading kitten syndrome threatens a kitten’s physical well-being and involves health-related symptoms, whereas single kitten syndrome primarily affects their mental well-being and is exhibited through behavioral symptoms.

Fading kitten syndrome occurs when a kitten fails to thrive between birth and when they wean from their mother (or from a bottle, in the case of hand-fed kittens) and is evidenced by the kitten failing to meet developmental milestones and other symptoms, such as labored breathing, lack of appetite, weakness, and an inability to gain weight. This syndrome usually occurs during a period of four to five weeks and is usually fatal.

References

One Is the Loneliest Number: Single Kitten “Syndrome” Behaviors

Fading Kitten Syndrome: Factors Predisposing to ‘Faders’ and Treatment Options

Affiliative Behavior of Related and Unrelated Pairs of Cats in Catteries

Cat Sense: How the New Feline Science Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet

Single vs multiple cat adoptions: A trade-off between longer adoption times and social bonding in shelter cats

Sociality in Cats: A Comparative Review

Social Organization in The Cat: A Modern Understanding


Julie Zeilinger is a NYC-based writer and editor whose writing has been published in Marie Claire, Vox, HuffPost, Forbes, and other publications. She is also the author of two books: College 101: A Girl’s Guide to Freshman Year (2014) and A Little F’d Up: Why Feminism Is Not a Dirty Word (2012). She is the mom to Baloo, a two-year-old Bichpoo and foster mom to dogs via Badass Animal Rescue.

How To Choose A Cat: Find A Cat That Is Right For You

Thinking of adopting a new cat? Learn how to navigate the process and find a cat that is perfect for your lifestyle.

Man holding newly adopted cat
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Bringing a new cat into your home should not be as simple as picking the first adorable kitten you find. If you want to be a pet parent to one of the two million cats adopted from animal shelters each year, you should first think about whether you’re able to commit to the responsibility of caring for a cat, financially and emotionally. If you are, do your research to find the right cat for your family, home, and lifestyle. Read on to learn about what to consider when looking for the best adoptable cat for you.

What factors should I consider when choosing a cat?

Every cat is different, so it’s important to think about what you’re looking for in a cat before scouring online adoption listings. Below are just a few factors to consider.

  • Age: A playful kitten will require more supervision, while an adult shelter cat may work better for a busier lifestyle or a home with children.
  • Personality: If you want a cat with a certain temperament, you’re better off choosing an adult cat, as kittens’ personalities are hard to determine. Decide if you want a cuddly and quiet lap cat or an active feline who will keep you busy.
  • Activity level: A more energetic cat will need frequent playtime and exercise, but if you have a busy schedule, you may want to choose a calmer companion who doesn’t mind spending time alone.
  • Temperament: Homes with children should consider relaxed, easy-going cats. If you have a quieter home, a shyer feline may be a good fit.
  • Breed: Many cats in shelters are mixed breeds, but if their breed is known, that information may help give you some idea of their overall temperament.
  • Coat type: Long-haired cats are a little more high-maintenance, requiring frequent brushing to avoid matting. If you don’t want to constantly groom your cat, pick a short-haired feline.
  • Health: Most cats in a shelter will likely have a clean bill of health, but be sure to ask the staff any questions about a cat’s specific needs or health history.
  • What if I have other pets at home? If you have other cats or dogs at home, make sure to choose a cat who has interacted with these animals before. Be prepared to introduce your new cat to your current pets slowly and carefully.

How can I ensure the cat’s health and medical history are in good condition?

The animal shelter or rescue staff knows their pets well and can tell you all about a cat’s medical history and current health. When you adopt a cat, the shelter will provide you with their full medical records so you know which vaccinations your pet still needs and any prior health issues they may have. Make sure to schedule an appointment with your vet ASAP after taking your cat home to establish care and schedule their next vaccinations.

How can I determine a cat’s personality in a shelter or rescue setting?

Before you choose a cat, you should take time to get to know any cat you’re interested in. Fortunately, many shelters and rescues have rooms where you can spend time with cats to narrow down your choices from all those sweet faces. Follow these tips to learn more about picking the right cat for you, even in a shelter setting.

  • Spend time with the cats: Visit with all adoptable cats to see which ones capture your attention. Notice how each cat responds to you, and if there is a particular cat that steals your heart, see if the shelter has space for you to spend one-on-one time together. Make sure you know how to pick a cat up before attempting to do so.
  • Ask questions about the cats’ personalities and histories: Some cats get a little timid when new people come in, but the shelter staff can tell you how they act when they’re most comfortable and answer your questions about a cat’s background.
  • Follow your gut instinct: You may know which cat is right for you just by feeling a special connection. Pay attention to and trust your instincts.

What if the cat’s behavior presents challenges after adoption?

How a cat acts in a shelter interaction may be different from how they act when you finally bring them home. Remember that every adult cat in a rescue or shelter has a history and may take some time to feel comfortable. Use these tips to ensure that your cat has the best opportunity to become a happy, healthy, and loving pet:

  • Be patient: Know that it could take your cat weeks or even months to adapt to their new home and life.
  • Create a safe space for your cat: Set up a room in your home that is solely the cat’s space until both you and your cat are ready for them to explore the rest of the house.
  • Spend time with your cat: Your cat will tell you when they want to be petted with a gentle nudge of the head. Let them set the pace for your interactions and spend time with them while still respecting their space.
  • Consider professional help: If your cat’s behavior is too challenging to handle on your own, think about consulting a cat behavioral specialist. You can also reach out to the shelter to ask for guidance.

How can I ensure a successful long-term relationship with my new cat?

The best way to create a positive relationship with your new cat is to start off right. Let your cat lead the way when it comes to interactions like petting and snuggling. Pay attention to their body language and cues and make sure to meet all their needs, such as feeding your cat a high-quality and healthy diet, keeping their litter box clean, and providing plenty of toys and playtime for mental and physical stimulation.

Take time to think about what you want in a cat and how your pet will best fit into your home and family. Then, when you’re ready to adopt, you can keep an eye out for a cat that will feel comfortable in your household. And with patience, time, and, of course, love, you can help your new pet feel at home and enjoy the benefits of cats as pets for years to come.

References

Adopters and Pet Selection Preferences in Five Animal Shelters in the United States

Adopting a Shelter Cat: What You Need to Know

RSPCA: Adopting a Cat or Kitten

What to Look for When Adopting a Cat

Choosing the Right Cat Breed for Your Personality

Humane Society of Grand Bahama Choosing the Right Cat

Choosing and Caring for Your New Cat

Puppies And Kids: Preparing For A New Puppy

Preparing for a new puppy with kids? Read our guide for insights on creating a harmonious bond between your children and new puppy.

woman and child with two pet poodles
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Many families know how beneficial the unconditional love of a well-cared-for pet can be. Of course, while kids tend to think only of all the good parts of having a pet, parents know a lot of patience, time, and effort are also necessary. While involving kids in raising and caring for a pet is great, it’s ultimately up to the parents to make sure the experience is positive and that a pet receives the care they need for their entire lives.

For parents on the fence about welcoming a pet into their home, here are a number of benefits of doing so you might not have considered.

Why are pets so important to humans?

There are many reasons that pets are so important to humans. Pets, especially dogs, offer a number of health benefits, ranging from lowering our risk of heart attacks and strokes to alleviating stress and anxiety. They also offer invaluable companionship and unconditional love.

What types of pets are suitable for kids of different ages?

Before bringing a new family member home, many parents ask themselves what the best pet for a child is, especially based on their age. While different kids may be able to handle certain pets at varying times, in general, children under 10 can handle different pets than can those over that age.

  • Children under 10: Children under the age of ten are generally less capable of handling and taking care of pets than older children. Birds, reptiles, and guinea pigs may be good choices for kids in this age range because they don’t have to be handled as frequently. Dogs and cats can do well in families with young children, but parents should be cautious about adopting small, fragile dogs or cats if they have very young or particularly rambunctious children.
  • Children over 10: Dogs and cats make wonderful family pets, but parents should teach their children of any age how to best treat pets of any size. Rabbits are also a good and relatively popular pet choice for kids on the older side, as they are very loving and bond with their humans, but require a fair amount of care and can startle or injure themselves easily.

While age is an important factor, so is a child’s individual personality. Even if you have a young child, if they’re calm, they may be capable of handling a more fragile pet, like a small dog. Or, even if they’re older, they may have a lot of energy and need a companion to match their activity level.

When adopting an adult pet, it’s also important to consult with the staff at a rescue or shelter to see if that pet is good with kids. Rescue pets especially come from a variety of backgrounds, and not all will do well with children of any age.

How do pets contribute to children’s physical, social, and emotional development?

Pets not only offer love but can actually contribute to children’s development in a number of ways, including:

  • Social and emotional development: Nurturing a pet helps children practice empathy, compassion, and caregiving skills. In fact, children with pets display improved impulse control, social skills, and self-esteem. What’s more, a family pet may build bonds within your family: Sharing the love and care of a family pet forges a common bond among siblings.
  • Physical benefits: Pets are also good for children’s (and adult pet parents’) physical health. Kids with pets get outside more to go for walks, run, and play – and enjoy all the associated health benefits of those activities. And studies also show that having a pet lessens the chances of developing obesity.
  • Health benefits: Research shows that children who grow up in homes with pets have less risk of developing common allergies and asthma, and playing with dogs may help lower blood pressure. Children with dogs at home are healthier overall, have fewer infectious respiratory problems, fewer ear infections, and are less likely to require antibiotics.
  • Mental health benefits: Cuddling a pet reduces stress, loneliness, and anxiety.
  • Academic benefits: There may also be academic benefits associated with having pets. For example, emerging readers often feel more comfortable reading aloud to a pet.
  • Benefits for children with special needs or disabilities: While having a pet dog has plenty of benefits in and of itself — for example, research shows that children with autism also uniquely benefit from having dogs, as they can help them learn responsibility and companionship — service and therapy dogs can benefit kids with special needs or disabilities.

How can pets help in teaching responsibility to kids?

Feeding and caring for a pet encourages childhood responsibility. When kids help pets not only meet their basic needs, such as giving their pet food but also help them thrive through playing with and giving them exercise, they learn the power they have to help another living being — and potentially harm them should they fail to do so.

10 Reasons Pets Are Good For Kids

To summarize, here are the top 10 reasons that pets benefit kids:

  1. Children who grow up in homes with pets have less risk of developing common allergies and asthma.
  2. Playing with dogs may help lower blood pressure.
  3. Kids with pets get outside more to go for walks, run, and play – and enjoy all the associated health benefits.
  4. People with pets require fewer doctor’s visits.
  5. Emerging readers often feel more comfortable reading aloud to a pet.
  6. Nurturing a pet is an acceptable way for kids to practice being caregivers.
  7. Feeding and caring for a pet encourages childhood responsibility.
  8. Children with pets display improved impulse control, social skills, and self-esteem.
  9. Sharing the love and care of a family pet forges an additional common bond among siblings.
  10. Cuddling a pet reduces stress, loneliness, and anxiety.

Ready to adopt a dog? Search for adoptable dogs and puppies near you on adoptapet.com.

References

Pet Dog Ownership Decisions for Parents of Children With Autism Spectrum Disorder1

Family Pets: Pros and Cons for Kids

Why Every Child Should Have a Pet

One of the Family? Measuring Young Adolescents’ Relationships With Pets and Siblings

Relationships Among Dog Ownership and Leisure-Time Walking in Western Canadian Adults

Impact of Service Dogs on the Well-being of Autistic Children, their Parents, and Families

Family Dog Ownership and Levels of Physical Activity in Childhood

Doctor’s Orders: Get a Dog

The ‘Pet Effect’: Health Related Aspects of Companion Animal Ownership

Pet Ownership and Human Health: A Brief Review of Evidence and Issues

Friends with Benefits: On the Positive Consequences of Pet Ownership

Adopting a Dog with Special Needs? Pros & Cons

Are you thinking of adopting a dog with special needs? Learn more about the pros and cons of special needs adoption

By Savannah Admire

disabled longhaired dachshund dog in a wheelchair
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When you decide to adopt a dog from your local shelter or rescue, you’re likely thinking of a charming mixed-breed or a puppy who needs a loving home. But there are also dogs with disabilities in shelters across the country who are just as eager to find their forever families — and, unfortunately, are far less likely to do so.

Special needs dogs are the third most difficult animals to place in homes, ranking just behind senior dogs and bully breeds. These dogs can spend more than two years waiting for the right person to adopt them, which is four times longer than the average for able-bodied dogs. But special needs dogs are dogs first, and they just want to experience the love and affection that every dog deserves. Learn all about special needs dog adoption and whether adopting one of these pups is right for you and your lifestyle.

What is meant by “special needs dog”?

So what is a disabled dog? The term “dogs with disabilities” is very broad and doesn’t have a strict definition. Disabilities can range from minor health issues to chronic illnesses that need constant treatment. A special needs dog may be deaf or blind, have one or more missing limbs, or struggle to control where they use the bathroom. Dogs with disabilities can be impacted by mental or physical conditions that make their lives different from those of other dogs, such as:

  • Missing limbs or eyes
  • Hearing or vision impairment
  • Deformities
  • Muscle issues that result in an inability to use certain limbs
  • Behavioral problems because of past trauma

Regardless of a dog’s disability, they still want to play, snuggle, and live the life of any dog without special needs.

What are the factors to consider when adopting a dog with disabilities?

If you’re thinking about adopting a special needs dog, it’s important to consider a couple factors before adopting a special needs dog. Taking care of any pet is a huge responsibility, but a special needs dog often requires more attention, time, and patience. Carefully consider whether your life, job, and bank account have room to take care of a dog with disabilities.

Your lifestyle

Adopting a special needs dog is a long-term commitment that often requires the ability to adjust your schedule for your dog’s needs. That means you’ll need a flexible work schedule that allows you to look after your pet during the day and doesn’t require you to travel often. You’ll also need everyone in the home to be completely on board with taking care of the dog, including kids, who will have to understand and abide by the house rules around the dog’s needs. Depending on the dog’s disability, your free time may be more limited, and you may have to shift focus to meeting your pet’s day-to-day requirements, whether that means regular medications, a special diet and feeding times, or assistance with mobility.

Your financial resources

While time commitment is essential, you also need the funds required to adopt a special needs dog and meet their needs. Many of these dogs require more frequent vet visits or surgeries, while others may require special diets or specific training classes. If your dog has mobility issues, you may have to invest in accessories like ramps or wheelchairs that enable them to move around more easily. Take time to examine your financial situation and determine whether you can commit the money required to care for a dog with disabilities.

Your ability to provide care for the specific disability

Your own physical strength and ability will play a big role in caring for a special needs dog. For example, you may have to pick up and carry your pet from time to time, help with elimination, feed them by hand, or administer medications. Your dog may even have to be strapped into special equipment to move or require constant, 24/7 supervision. You must be able and willing to handle all these needs.

What challenges should I expect when adopting a dog with disabilities?

Adopting a dog with disabilities can be incredibly rewarding but also comes with challenges. Before committing to care for a special needs dog, consider whether you’re prepared for the commitment and can face the challenges of the responsibility.

Medical expenses

Not all dogs with disabilities require extensive medical care, but many do. This can range from surgeries and extra vet visits to medications or special equipment. Keep in mind that pet insurance does not cover pre-existing conditions, so you should be prepared for the financial commitment of caring for a special needs dog before adopting.

Training needs

Some disabled dogs may need special needs dog training classes designed to help them more easily navigate the world. For example, if you adopt a dog with behavioral issues, they will likely need consistent, positive training. Similarly, dogs with sensory issues like deafness and blindness highly benefit from the socialization that group training classes provide.

Time commitment

Many dogs with disabilities have spent a significant amount of time in a shelter and may require patience to feel comfortable in their new home. But the time commitment doesn’t stop there. Dogs with medical issues may need specific injections or medications at certain times of the day or even diaper changes. If you want to adopt a dog with disabilities, it’s important to understand that your schedule will revolve around their needs, which can take up a lot of your time.

What are the advantages of adopting a dog with disabilities?

Adopting a special needs dog is a significant commitment but can also be incredibly rewarding. If you’re willing to put in the time and effort, you’ll benefit from an inspiring and loving companion. Some of the advantages of adopting a dog with disabilities include a forming a deep bond, gratitude and unconditional love.

Unconditional love

Dogs with disabilities rely on their human parents to provide the care they need, so they tend to form deep, lasting bonds quickly. Your special needs dog will understand the important role you play in their daily life and how you help make them happy and comfortable. The result is usually a loyal and loving pet.

Gratitude

There’s something truly special about watching a formerly abandoned dog reveal their truest self in a safe, stable home. Adopting a dog with disabilities provides them with more than a home — you’re also giving them the love and attention they may have never received in the past. Because of this, special needs dogs often feel a sense of gratitude and affection toward their pet parents, especially when they’ve waited a long time to find their forever homes.

Educational experience

If you’ve never spent time around a special needs dog, you may be surprised at how they adapt to their differences and learn to work around their disabilities. Dogs with missing limbs are still as playful as those with all their legs, and blind dogs often use their other senses to navigate their environment. It can be inspiring to watch a dog with disabilities tackle the world head-on, and it may even encourage you to face your own challenges.

What are the types of disabilities in dogs?

Disabilities can come in a variety of forms in dogs, whether physical (such as a missing limb or vision impairment), cognitive (such as dementia), or behavioral (such as anxiety disorders), and they range in severity.

Physical disabilities

Physical disabilities in dogs include any medical condition, injury, or congenital disability that impacts the dog’s life, such as:

  • Sensory issues like blindness or deafness
  • Digestive issues
  • Arthritis and joint stiffness
  • Paralysis
  • Deformities or injuries
  • Chronic medical conditions like epilepsy, diabetes, kidney disease, heart disease, or cancer

Cognitive disabilities

Cognitive disabilities are less common but still occur in some dogs, resulting in the need for specific treatments and often more frequent vet visits. Cognitive dysfunction syndrome (CDS) is similar to Alzheimer’s in humans and can result in dementia.

Behavioral disabilities

For many dogs, behavioral disabilities often result from abuse or trauma in their past. With patience and training, these issues can be managed. Some examples of behavioral disabilities include aggression, separation anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Where can I adopt a dog with disabilities?

If you have fully considered the commitment and decided to adopt a dog with disabilities, start by contacting local animal shelters and rescue organizations. Many of them likely have special needs dogs desperately in need of loving, caring homes. You can also reach out to a disabled dog shelter or rescue organization that specializes in caring for and placing dogs with disabilities. If your local shelter does not have any special needs dogs, search online listings for special needs dogs up for adoption.

What are some tips for caring for a disabled dog?

All pets require a major commitment from their human parents, but none more so than dogs with disabilities. If you decide to adopt a special needs dog, remember these tips to help you care for your pet with grace and love.

  • Be patient and understanding. Dogs with disabilities may be more likely to make mistakes or messes, whether that means urinating in the house or being destructive. The best gift you can give a special needs dog is your time and patience. Be understanding of their struggles and do your best to make life easier for them.
  • Provide specialized care as needed. Make sure you have the physical stamina and ability to care for a dog with disabilities. Research their condition in-depth before adoption, but understand that their specific needs may change over time. You should also consult your vet and work with them to develop a care plan for your special needs dog.
  • Adapt your lifestyle to accommodate the dog’s needs. Remember that your schedule will revolve around your dog, whether giving medications at specific times or helping them move about the house.

Can I provide the necessary care and resources for a disabled dog?

So, can you have a special needs dog? As long as you have the financial resources and are willing to take on the responsibility, you can provide a special needs dog with a loving home. Just keep in mind that you may have to purchase items other dog owners don’t, like ramps or canine diapers, and you should have a flexible schedule so you can more easily meet your dog’s needs. But you don’t have to be an expert in caring for a dog with disabilities; you just have to be willing to learn.

While caring for a dog with disabilities is a big commitment, if you have the resources and lifestyle to provide for a special needs dog, you should certainly consider adopting one. These dogs can be incredibly inspiring and loving companions and may even change your life as much as you change theirs.

FAQs (People Also Ask):

Should I consider adopting a dog with disabilities?

Caring for a special needs dog requires patience and a commitment to meet the dog’s needs regardless of the challenges you may face.

How can I ensure the disabled dog’s well-being and quality of life?

Beyond meeting your disabled dog’s needs, you also need to spend time with them, play with them, and socialize them with other people and dogs, if possible.

What if I am not sure about adopting a dog with disabilities?

If you’re not sure that adopting a special needs dog is right for you, then don’t do it. There are plenty of dogs without disabilities who also need homes.

References

Understanding the Special in Special Needs Pets

Adopting a Special Needs or Blind Pet

Disabled Animal Myths

Tips for Living with Blind Dogs

Adopting a Disabled Dog Doesn’t Need to Be Scary!

Myths About Dog Wheelchairs

Living with a Disabled Dog

Tips on Living With and Training a Blind Dog


Savannah Admire is a writer, editor, and pet parent to two dogs and a cat. When she’s not writing, you can find her reading, playing Animal Crossing, or being an obnoxious nerd about her favorite movies and TV shows. She lives in Maryland, where she constantly debates whether or not to get a third dog.